A Mum who was struggling with her 2 year old. Feeling that she didn't have a connection with him. Everything she asked of him – from sleeping to playing – he seemed to always do the opposite. She was looking for a way to have co-operation and some sleep.
I originally had a personal balance done on myself and didn't get immediate results. I'm a slow and stubborn processor! But it was some huge stuff we worked on too. A while later I asked Chris to do a balance on my 2 year old son, as I was struggling with him on a daily basis. I was at breaking point! Tears and tantrums everyday and that was just me!
He never slept, he was unhappy and anxious ALL the time. Nothing I did seemed right or helped. I couldn't even leave him alone with anyone for a break as he got so upset. And daycare drop off….. What a nightmare!
So Chris actually suggested an Energies as One Balance to clear the "stuff" between us.
After one balance (and about 10days, we are both slow/stubborn processers) he started sleeping better. I could go out for little trips alone and he started playing with toys happily on his own without me having to be in the room all the time. He was still anxious sometimes but that had lessened.
After a second balance on him (and about 7 days processing time) he started to play happily (most of the time) alone and with other children, he even plays happily with Mummy and Daddy. He even said to me "Mummy Jensen So Happy"! It made my heart melt. I am able to go out whenever I want to and daycare drop off is a breeze. A kiss and cuddle for Mummy and off I go!
He still has his 2 year old moments but I am able to cope with those better as I also now know it's nothing I am doing or have done it's just his toddler behaviour. I especially love it now when he comes up to me and says….. "Love you Mummy"